Medication for anxiety: good practice, not a last resort

Some dogs are so frightened, so much of the time, that they can’t learn. For them, the right medication can take the edge off the fear enough for everything else to start working.

“I don’t want to drug my dog.” It’s one of the most understandable things people say when a vet mentions medication for anxiety. Many feel it means they’ve failed, or that it will change their dog’s personality. It’s worth looking at it differently.

Why it can help

A dog who panics at every noise, or who can’t settle when left alone, is living in a state where new, calmer habits simply don’t stick. Fear gets in the way of learning. For these dogs, medication can lower the fear enough that behaviour work has a chance to take hold.

It isn’t instead of behaviour work. It works alongside it. The aim is a dog who feels calm enough to learn and enjoy life, not a sedated dog.

What to expect

  • Only a vet can prescribe it. They’ll check your dog’s general health first, and choose what suits them.
  • Some medicines are given every day and take several weeks to have their full effect. Others are used just for particular events, like fireworks or a vet visit.
  • It’s not necessarily for life. Many dogs come off medication gradually once they’ve made progress, always with the vet’s guidance.
  • Your dog stays your dog. Well-chosen medication shouldn’t change who they are. If they seem flat or unlike themselves, talk to your vet.

Questions to ask your vet

  • What is this medicine for, and how long before we see a difference?
  • What side effects should I watch for?
  • Is it daily, or only for certain situations?
  • When will we review it, and how would we stop it if we needed to?
  • Could pain be part of the picture too?

When to ask

If your dog’s fear is severe, getting worse, or stopping them from eating, sleeping or living normally, ask your vet about medication early rather than as a last resort. Keep notes or videos of what you’re seeing to show them. Your vet and a behaviour professional can work together, and your dog benefits from both.

Not sure what to try first?

A First Step is a good place to begin: a short conversation to work out what’s going on and what to try first. We’ll agree the next step together, which may be a Second Step with a written plan. My approach is reward and choice based, and it starts where your dog is.

Take the first step